Ninja Parent Lessons: The Pillow Paw

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Ninja Parent Lessons The Pillow Paw

The average height of a table is 26″-30″ and counters are around 36″. They all have corners and edges that kids’ heads are somehow magnetically drawn to when they’re passing through this height range.

As a parent it’s your duty to protect your child. So obviously that includes making sure they don’t bash in their own brains on dining room tables and store counters or other sharp interruptions of their mission to fling themselves spastically around the universe until it breaks or makes a funny sound.

So, we all tend to perform this action instinctively: wrapping our hands around an edge or sharp point that seems destined to make contact with our nearby frolicking children. And sometimes we do it at the speed of light and ninjas. The Pillow Paw.

But, being the pesky little hand-raiser in the class, you may now be asking this question. Why must one study and practice the art of cushioning sharp things with one’s hand if we all do it by instinct?

The Pillow Paw Corner CushioningCarpenters wouldn’t even need to sand edges if they just hired parents to hang out around unfinished furniture.

Because instincts suck. Plain and simple. They send you bolting into screen doors, smashing your head on the insides of cabinets you’re reaching into, and a bunch of other really stupid and painful knee-jerk reactions. Instinctual reflexes are fast for sure, but without trained control they’re also like teenaged sex, lacking finesse and coordination, and making promises they just can’t keep.

Sometimes, in moving at the speed of light, you accidentally thrash your rescuing fingers or palm “β€œ or worst of all, the back of your hand. You know, that awful part where it’s all just a whole Lego set of bones and tendons. ARG!!! The back of your hand is like the shin of your upper body. Ten times the pain for any force received.

But when it finally pays off, and there’s that moment when your hand provided that emergency padding, the satisfaction of being a good protector may almost seem to lessen the pain that follows your hand being crushed between a missile-like toddler head and the business end of a checkout counter.

Remember, even though toddler-ninjas duck around and crouch most of the time, their ninja parents must also become skilled at The Pillow Paw technique while their kids are still mastering the art of dodging arrows and clothing store shelving. So do what they do and practice honing your instincts. Become one with The Pillow Paw.

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Not really. But that would be pretty cool, right?

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26 Comments

  • Canadian Dad says:

    Awesome! I’ve been thinking about fastening WWE style turnbuckles to every sharp corner in the house! Unfortunately my kids love to eat and I’m afraid they would George “the Animal” Steele their way through all of them! Or smash each others head into them, which could be awesome as well….

    • Andy says:

      Ha ha ha ha ha! If you do it to your house, send me a picture. Try to get a mid-air shot. πŸ˜‰

  • Christina says:

    I’m not all that over protective of my kids =p I don’t know if that’s a flaw or not yet.

    I have never done this. If it doesn’t kill them or cause irreparable damage, I have very little compulsion to protect. I guess to me, part of the learning and running into things is learning your boundaries. Oh..can’t hit that, it hurts.

    But then, (through no fault of mine) my 3-yr-old knows what goes in an electrical socket so has no compulsion to stick a fork in it =p

    However, I’m a bit of a psycho mommy when it comes to the idea of kidnapping or missing children. That’s when I get “Don’t get out of my sight” crazy and I don’t know if that’s entirely healthy, either.

    • Andy says:

      Different strokes for different folks. I let my lads go berserk and they don’t always “stick the landing” and sometimes get hurt or scraped, but I’ve always cushioned edges with my hand when I could see they were not really paying attention.

  • CatZilla says:

    Too funny! My baby is only 3 months, but I’ve been doing this with my nieces and nephews for YEARS!

    • Andy says:

      Right!?! I’ve seen so many parents to it unconsciously in one way or another, if not with their hands then with their bodies or padded diaper bags.

  • Hop-on-Pop says:

    This is where a Kung-Fu Grip comes in handy.

  • Hop-on-Pop says:

    This is where a Kung-Fu Grip comes in handy !!

    • Andy says:

      Fung Fu grips ALWAYS come in “HANDY”! Get it!?!? Har har har har har! (you can shoot me now.)

  • Cory says:

    This is the best quote right here: “Instinctial reflexes are fast for sure, but without trained control they’re also like teenaged sex, lacking finesse and coordination, and making promises they just can’t keep.”

    Pillow Paw FTW!

    • Andy says:

      Awww thanks, man. If you knew how many times I rewrote that line… well, I’m actually not sure what then, if you knew. But I thank you in my 3:38am delirium. πŸ˜‰

  • Ryan H. says:

    …and here I thought Baby-proofing was gonna be a set it and forget it type affair. I’ll start working on my Ninja Skills immediately!!

    • Andy says:

      Ha ha! Don’t go too crazy. Or if you do, go all the way and get a bubble. Those look like crazy good fun! πŸ˜‰

  • Nice post and one I will have to remember as I embark on baby proofing. I’m beginning to realize that baby-proofing is actually toddler-proofing and that like all good defenses, it must be a multi-layered one.

    • Andy says:

      Your realization is spot friggin’ on. Babies are all soft and delicate but they’re slow for the most part. Toddlers are like missiles with broken fins and no guidance controls.

  • Drew says:

    My toddler likes to come down & play in my basement workshop. After several meetings between his head and the outfeed table of my jointer, I wrapped a carpet scrap around it & secured it with that self-sticking plastic wrap. When I finished I asked him what he thought of it. He walked over, banged his head against it a few times and told me it was better now.

    • Andy says:

      I love this comment sooooooo much for multiple reasons.

      =@@= <- Internet Bro Fist

  • If this was an Olympic sport, I’d win the gold medal. Just saying.

    • Andy says:

      Ha ha! I would be a worthy opponent in that event. To quote Dolph Lundgren from Rocky 4: I must br-r-reak you.

  • Jim says:

    I can’t tell you the amount of abuse my hands have taken from this after four kids.

    • Andy says:

      You don’t have to, I have three. So I just need to add 25% to what I have experienced. πŸ˜‰

  • Rheababeea says:

    This never happened in my family! All 7 kids in my generation have the same scar on their forheads from smashing (at full sprint) into the point of my grandmothers kitchen bench. Mind you, we never did that twice πŸ˜‰

    • Andy says:

      Ha ha ha ha! Yikes! I can’t watch it happening or coming even close to happening. And I’m constantly put to the test on it, since my boys all seem Hell bent on banging the world to pieces with their noggins. πŸ˜‰

  • Juliana says:

    haha i once accidently hit my son while trying to do the pillow pow cos i was rushing towards the edge of the table..so i agree that this need practise =)

    • Andy says:

      Wow. You only did that ONCE? Ha ha ha ha! Becoming a ninja is hard work.

      • Juliana says:

        only once because my son has just started to get excited about being mobile (just mastered sitting at 5 mo) and has started throwing himself at everything that comes in his way trying to see what happens if he does that..i think he finds it funny when we try to block him from hurting himself..hihihi..im pretty sure more will come as he learns to crawl and stand..hm lotsa practise to do! =)

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