My Wife Just Said… #179

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“I want to cry. But I just don’t have the energy… I’m SO tired of being high maintenance! I didn’t used to be!”
-Elizabeth

 

She was misty-eyed and exhausted in my arms. I was sitting there listening, occasionally making quiet, encouraging sounds that said I understood and felt for what she was feeling.

When she said that she didn’t used to be high-maintenance, we were both quiet for a moment before chuckling at what she’d said. I could tell she was feeling better, and though I knew she really only wanted patient ears right then and not pep-talkling lips, I risked saying something.

I told her she wasn’t “high-maintenance”… she was a mom.

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5 Comments

  • Laurie says:

    Probably my favorite sentence ever, that is good stuff. Good on ya! Poor Lizzy! hope she is feeling better.

    “though I knew she really only wanted patient ears right then and not pep-talkling lips”

    • Andy says:

      I’m so glad. I love her so much and I’m a talker, so sometimes it takes great restraint to just look steadily and listen closely.

      We all want to fix the pain we see in those we love. It’s hard when the best way we can help is to just be there while they’re paining.

  • Nawwww 🙂

  • Christine says:

    Good job husband!

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